I mean, what’s wrong with travelling alone? It’s so much more liberating than travelling with a group of friends to be honest. I’m not saying travelling with friends is a bad idea but if you have experienced travelling alone to a foreign land, you know what I mean. So here are the 10 reasons I believe why you should travel alone at least once in your lifetime.
1. You Get To Plan Your Own Itinerary
When you travel alone, you don’t have to stick to a fixed plan like those you follow if you travel with a tour. If you travel with friends, everyone has to come to a compromising conclusion on where to go, what to see, which place to visit. Imagine going with a group of friends, one is a history buff and can spend one whole day in a museum, another one wanna take photographs of nature, while the others want to go shopping which you’re not interested at all, but you like to just walk around the city to wander off along the streets to witness the daily life of the locals there. Are you going to follow your friends to a museum which you hate? When you travel alone, you get to go wherever you feel like it.
2. You Get To Eat What And Where You Like
One friend wanna try Japanese food, another one must have Chinese food, while the other one just wanna grab something at a fast food chain while you want to try local delicacies. Another headache! Hahaha… when I travel alone in Europe, I can walk for so many miles just to find the cheapest restaurant. When it comes to food, everyone’s budget is different. Some would splurge on fine dining while others on tight budget would just grab and go.
3. You Can Go At Your Own Pace
When you are travelling alone, you can walk as slow or as fast as you want. You can spend the entire day in museum if you want to, or you can just walk around the town the whole day to see what interests you. When I enter cathedrals and palaces, I would spend so long standing there admiring at the details of the architecture and design. I would walk slowly to feel the atmosphere and the surrounding of the area while imagining how the aristocrats live there during that era. If your friends are not into architecture, they would feel so boring and want to leave that place to go to another place and that would spoil your mood because you don’t get to see what you want. Imagine having spent so much on the air ticket and flying so many miles but you don’t get to see what you like most. Isn’t that disappointing? You would regret.
4. You Will Be More Independent
When you travel alone, you have no one to guide you or help you but yourself. You have to ask directions on your own, you have to approach strangers (the locals there) to ask, you have to force yourself to talk a little bit of the foreign language in that country. Basically, you have to do everything on your own, thus training you indirectly to be more independent compared to if you’re in your own country where you friends might help you, your siblings or parents will get things done for you. If you travel with a tour, all you need to do is ask your tour guide and he or she will solve your problems for you and get the things you want.
5. You Will Be More Confident And Brave
Relating to the point above, when you’re independent, you will become fearless. Well, to some extent. Not to say, you will now dare to jump out of the plane with a parachute immediately, but when you learn to solve problems and get things done all by yourself, you will have that confident in you. Imagine you’re in a foreign land where nothing is familiar to you. Everything is different from where you come from, so if you can survive there, you will have no problem going to other foreign countries in future on your own.
6. You Get To Make New Friends
When you stay in a hostel, you get to meet other travellers from other countries and you get to mix around with them, hang out with them at night and exchange travelling stories. At the end of your stay, you could exchange contacts such as add each other in Facebook, Whatsapp or other social platforms to stay connected.
7. You Will Be More Alert
When you are travelling alone, you are responsible for your own belongings (passport, money, wallet, etc.). No one will be in-charge to take care of your stuff for you. Hence, you will stay alert and observe your surrounding to avoid pickpockets.
8. You Get To Stay Where You Like
When you are travelling with friends, most likely all of you will choose to stay in a hotel or rent a big house for everyone to stay together, but when you’re travelling alone, you get to choose where you want to stay. If you’re on a tight budget, you can choose a bed in a hostel or a cheap room from those homestay websites but if you want to pamper yourself and can afford to splurge on luxury bed, then you can choose from the many hotels in that city.
9. You Will Create A Rewarding Memories
When you’re travelling alone, you get to experience everything first-hand because you walk on your own, you see things on your own, you approach strangers, you ask for directions, you get help from the locals, or you help other travellers, you try on the local delicacies, you take the local public transport. Every little action you take is decided by you and so, you will remember every single detail of your trip if you travel alone. It is a very rewarding experience. I can tell you that because until now, I remember every little thing that I experience on my own while I was in Europe.
10. You Get To Enrich Your Life Experience
With all the points above, I’m sure you get to see that the experience you get from travelling alone is not only rewarding but it enriches your life overall. Money can buy the air tickets, the accommodation and food but nothing can buy the memories you create with you along the trip, and that is what you will have in your brain for the rest of your life.
Therefore, in my opinion, travelling alone is the best gift you can give to yourself. Let go of that fear. Let go of your doubts. Go for it. After several times of travelling on my own, I kinda like it and I will definitely travel alone again. What about you? Have you travelled alone before? Where to? Do share your experience with us. Love to hear from you.
It took me awhile to get used to it and trust me, after you have succeeded in your first trip planning, you will gain experience to do the same or even better in your next trip.
Here are the step-by-step on what you can do in planning your first solo trip. Most people don't know where to start or what to look out for in their planning. With this guide, I hope it will somehow put you on track to get you going without going bonkers! Have fun and all the best!
STEP-BY-STEP GUIDE:
1. First, do you know where you want to visit? Decide on which country you wanna visit. Let's take for example: Italy.
4. Next, check out if the places you want to visit requires any admission fee. Most of the churches and cathedrals are usually FREE admission. Museums, castles, palaces will need admission fee but if you just want to walk around on the ground area of the palace without going inside, then it's free to walk around. Remember to write down the opening hours of the places to avoid being denied entry when you reach there.
5. Once you have the list of places you want to see in Venice, now you may decide on how many days you want to stay in order for you to be able to visit each place in Venice. If you only want to stay for a certain number of days, for instance, two days, then make sure you plan out carefully on the number of places that can fit into your schedule. Remember, you're travelling on your own. You may decide on how long you wanna stay in one place. Give yourself at least one hour for each place, so that you won't be rushing to the next stop without slowly admiring the beauty and details of the architecture.
9. Change your local money to the foreign currency. How much to bring? That depends on the admission fee to all the places you want to visit. Jot down each admission fee, add the total up. Next, you can search online on how much does a meal cost in Italy. Let's say a quick cheap breakfast on the go is €8, lunch is €10 and dinner is €20, so food for each day is €38. If you are staying for a week, multiply it: €38 x 7 = €266. I suggest you to make a round figure of €300. Don't forget that you need money to buy bottled mineral water, bus ticket, subway ticket to get you around.
NOTE: Most of the small shops, museums, local eatery shop may not accept credit cards. You may bring your credit card for emergency and remember to contact the bank issuer of your credit card and inform them on the country you're going to avoid having your card being rejected when you make a payment in a foreign country.
Once you reached the train station or bus station of the next city you're about to embark on, try to get a free city map from the station information counter to get you around. They have maps for tourists and you can see the places of attractions and which bus or train to take or if some are within walking distance, that will save you from buying a ticket.
THINGS TO PRINT OUT:
Once you have booked your flights and accommodation, print out your boarding pass, the hotel reservation confirmation email from the hotel, the bus/train ticket (if you buy online). Basically, print out any important confirmation email and tickets and bring it with you. Also, print your passport (the personal info page) and bring it with you. In any case of loss, at least you have a print-out passport to prove your identity when you're making a police report.
IMPORTANT ITEMS TO BRING:
- Passport (check your passport validation, make sure it's not expired)
- Foreign cash
- Money belt
- Basic toiletries (Check the airline's regulations on the bottle size and volume)
- Clothing (Make sure it's appropriate for the season you're travelling. Check the weather forecast)
- Smartphone
- Phone charger (powerbank if you need)
- Universal plug adapter (Different countries have different power socket plug)
- All the print-out of important documents
- Credit cards (For emergency)
- Walking shoes (Make sure it's comfortable for walking)
- Spectacles/Contact lens (If you need. Don't forget the contact lens solution and lens case too)
- Pen and notebook (In case you need to write down addresses, or other important notes along the way)
- Camera and its kit (If you're bringing your DSLR or a compact digital camera)
- Travel guidebook (If you want to bring along)
P/S: If you have any other questions about planning your first trip, do leave your questions in the comment.
What is the most common stereotype remark you hear about Italian people? That they are loud when they talk, and they move their hands a lot which to some may deem as too much or even rude but they are not rude. Italian people are very expressive when it comes to speech, music, food, and that is why it is only natural for them to have body movement and a wide range of intonations in their words. Italians use hand gestures to enliven conversations, strengthen their point, and communicate on a non-verbal level.
When I reached the B&B (Bed & Breakfast) hotel in Rome,I greeted by a pretty Italian girl working at the hotel. Besides showing me where the shared bathroom and the kitchen is, she gives me a map showing me the location of the hotel by circling on the map and then points with her pen and telling me how to get to each major tourist site from the hotel and where to take the train and bus to the city centre.
After she has done explaning, she repeats the whole thing again! YES! Repeat the whole thing from the very beginning by telling me, “So, this is the hotel…. *she circles it again… from here you can take the bus to… *points her pen along the route to show me…”
In the end, I have lost count on the number of times she repeated the whole thing but it’s at least twice if it’s not thrice. Please don’t get me wrong. I truly appreciate it because it makes thing very clear and she doesn’t want the guests to get confused and forgot what she said if she only explains it once. I love her personality and her service to the guests.
Another thing I like and admire about the Italians are the ones working in retail shops and restaurants. They will greet you “Buongiorno” when they see you and they will say, “Grazie” when you pay. Even the mail man, the guy who delivers newspapers to every house on the street will greet me. I was not very comfortable at first with strangers greeting me because in my country, people don’t do that. I know, it’s not very polite but that’s how it is.
The Italians make you feel welcomed, they can get friendly with you almost instantly, easy to warm-up kind of people. Below are some common Italian stereotypes that are actually true.
- Italians can’t live without pasta.
- Italians talk with their hands.
- Italians are all about “La Famiglia” (family is so important to Italians that they either live close to their parents or in the same house. The ties that bind families together are undeniably strong. Families often gather weekly for a meal or stay in close contact.)
- Italians love good cappuccino. (They will travel blocks to find the best cappuccino.)
- Italians are obsessed with fashion. (While everything doesn’t have to be designer, Italians like to wear high-quality fabrics. Individualism is also valued in Italy, and men aren’t afraid to wear bright colors. In fact, don’t be surprised if you see men wearing orange, blue, or pink pants.)
- Italians aren’t afraid of public affection (I see many couples hugging, kissing on the street, in shopping malls, in the park, everywhere.)
A good example on how friendly and helpful the Italians are can be described in two incidents of mine while I was in Italy. After pressing on the screen of the ticket machine, I was ready to insert the money but was shocked seeing so many compartment holes. While I was trying to figure out which slot to insert the money, I heard a man saying loudly, “the green one”. I turned my back to see who was shouting and to whom he was talking to.
There was no one around except me and that guy and then I realize he was talking to me when he looked at me and said, “the green one” again. I thanked him and gave a few nods to show my appreciation for his help. He was standing at the entrance and I was standing inside the station at the ticket machine so it was quite a distance, that’s why he has to raise his voice in order for me to get his words. How thoughtful of him to help a stranger even though he’s standing so far away.
Another incident is when I get into a bus, I have to insert my ticket into a machine to validate my ticket. In other words, your ticket must be stamped by the machine or else it is considered invalid and if you’re caught, you will be fined on the spot. As I was trying to insert the ticket into the machine, my card just wouldn’t get in. A lady who just got into the bus saw my predicament and helped me by taking my ticket and said, “Come, let me show you. Put it upside down. See? It went in.” See how thoughtful the Italians are.
I love how friendly and how kind and thoughtful the Italians are when they see you in trouble. They will never hesitate to come forward to help you without you asking. And don’t get me started with the food. Italian food (pizzas, pasta, cheese, coffee) are the best! I would definitely visit Italy again for more good tasty food. To all my Italian readers who are reading this, I love your country and the food there!
Admit it. We all stereotype people from another country. In the olden days, we woud hear people saying Japanese people are short but look at them now. We would also hear them saying all Chinese have single eyelid but you know that’s not entirely true.
ACCOMMODATION
BERLIN
Type: Whole apartment
Duration: 3 nights
Price: €84
Booking website: Airbnb
DRESDEN
Type: One private room (staying with the host but he’s sleeping in his own room)
Duration: 2 nights
Price: €47
Booking website: Airbnb
MUNICH
Type: Euro Youth Hotel Munich
Duration: 3 nights
Price: €152.50
Booking website: booking.com
VIENNA
Type: One private room
Duration: 3 nights
Price: €98
Booking website: Airbnb
VENICE
Type: Hotel Astoria
Duration: 3 nights
Price: €198
Booking website: expedia.com
FLORENCE
Type: One private room
Duration: 3 nights
Price: €101
Booking website: Airbnb
ROME
Type: Colazione Al Vaticano B&B Hotel
Duration: 3 nights
Price: €163.50
Booking website: expedia.com
LONG-DISTANCE TRANSPORTATION
From BERLIN to DRESDEN
Type: Long-distance bus
Company: Meinfernbus
Price: €7
Duration: 2 hours 40 mins
From DRESDEN to MUNICH
Type: Long-distance bus
Company: Meinfernbus
Price: €22
Duration: 8 hours
From MUNICH to VIENNA
Type: Train
Company: OBB
Price: €49
Duration: 5 hours
From VIENNA to VENICE
Type: Train
Company: OBB
Price: €69
Duration: 11 hours 48 mins
From VENICE to FLORENCE
Type: Train
Company: Trenitalia
Price: €34
Duration: 2 hours
From FLORENCE to ROME
Type: Train
Company: Trenitalia
Price: €29
Duration: 1 hours 31 mins
Currency Exchange Rate
13/7/15 €700 x 4.27 = RM 2,989
12/8/15 €900 x 4.46 = RM 4,014
Total: €1,600 = RM 7,003
Accommodation and Train: €1,054
€700 x 4.27= RM 2,989
€354 x 4.46 = RM 1,579
€1,054 = RM 4,568
Airline: Qatar Airways from Kuala Lumpur to Berlin (1 stop at Doha, Qatar)
- A slice of pizza from subway train station: €5 (RM 25)
- Sandwich: €5 (RM 25)
- A bottle of mineral water (1.5L): €1 – €2 (RM 5 – 10) *the price varies depending on whether you buy near tourist spot or at that far away shop down the road.
- A plate of spaghetti: €8 – €13 (RM 40 – 65) *again it depends if the restaurant is located near major attractions or not.
So, if you take the previous amount of RM 8,160 + RM 700 (Food) = RM 8,860. That's not even up to RM10k yet. With approximately RM9,000, you can travel like me visiting Germany, Austria, Italy, and Vatican City within three weeks.
Thanks to Facebook for showing me this memory today. It was three years ago when I participated as the piano accompanist collaborating with a local soprano, a good friend of mine. We performed Korean Folk & Art Song on 19th April 2014 at the Petaling Street Art House, Jalan Sultan. The recital performance was featured in a local newspaper.
I have been thinking to do a solo recital in future but there's a lot of behind-the-scene work to be done, such as getting a good and proper hall, renting a good grand piano, printing tickets, posters, coming up with a list of repertoire to perform, spreading the news over social media platforms. Therefore, it's not as easy as one would think about preparing and organizing a performance.
Well, let me go through my repertoire and see which pieces are suitable and interesting to be presented for my audience. With my baby niece in the house, it's hard to get some time to practise these days. I just got so drawn to her. Hahaha.
Phew! Alas, it's finally done and over! I'm so tired from last night's party. My family hosted a birthday party for my niece. It's her 1st birthday, so we decided to make it big by having a buffet dinner. There are a lot of people that we want to invite so buffet is the best option without having to cook and prepare like mad!
I have been planning this for months, from searching and surveying which caterer to book for food, which bakery or pastry chef to custom-made the birthday cake. You must be feeling strange that aren't this supposed to be the parents' task to plan for their baby's birthday party.
- Prawns: Fried Prawns with Butter Oat
- Fish: Sweet & Sour Fish Fillet
- Octopus: Tomyam Sotong with Lady Finger (sotong is Malay word for "squid")
- Chicken: Rendang Chicken
- Fried Chicken: Crispy Lemon Chicken Chop
- Vegetables: Fried Mixed Vegetables
- Noodles: Kampung Style Mee Hoon
- Rice: Pineapple Fried Rice
- Steamed Food: Seaweed Roll
- Snacks: Bread Cheese Ball
- Refreshments: Baked Mini Desserts
- Fruits: Fresh Honeydew
- Desserts: Mixed Mango Juice and Ice Kacang ABC
How about the food taste? Most of the guests commented that the food was good and tasty. My family and I were satisfied with the quality of the food too. Since we have ordered Ice Kacang ABC, one of the workers was in-charge to handle the ice shaving machine to prepare the dessert for our guests.
Catering company: OTK Food & Catering Services
Using the same method as how I choose the caterer, I searched a few individual pastry chef on Instagram. Most of the cakes are too small for 100 guests, therefore I tried to find a cake house which is nearby my house. We went there to ask for a quotation and I'm happy that they have a lot of designs to choose from.
Prior to that, we have already decided to order a birthday cake in the shape of number 1 with a Mickey Mouse on the cake and below is a photo of the cake.
Apart from the buffet, the guests also applauded that the cake was nice, soft, not too sweet. Some asked me where did I order the cake. If you're interested, below is the location and contact number of the cake house.
Cherries Cake House
Overall, the party was a success! We were tired at the end of the day but it was worth it. Thank you all for coming to join us to celebrate the baby's 1st birthday. We appreciate each and every one of you for spending your precious time with us.
A special thank you to my Godma and aunty Jane Ni for the lovely dress and all the balloons decoration for our birthday girl.
Disclaimer: This is NOT a paid nor a sponsored post. The views expressed on this post is solely my personal opinions.
"The simplest way to make sure that we raise literate children is to teach them to read, and to show them that reading is a pleasurable activity. And that means, at its simplest, finding books that they enjoy, giving them access to those books, and letting them read them."
I have met some school teachers whom never allow their students to read fantasy books. Why? One told me that the language they use in fantasy books are not proper English with words and character names that are created on purpose for the story. Another teacher said it is not healthy for the mind to read something which is not realistic.
As Neil Gaiman once wrote that there is no such thing as bad books for children because every now and then, it's fashionable for adults to criticize and declare certain books to be bad for children. Speaking from my personal experience, I grew up reading Enid Blyton, but do you know that she was once declared as a bad author and some parents banned their children to read her books.
What about you? Do you believe there are such thing as a bad author or bad books? Were you discouraged from reading a certain type of books when you're young? From my perspective of views, I tend to seek children books which are not only easy to read but stories with moral values for the child to learn the difference between good and bad behaviour.
For now, I would pick children books with more colourful images and not too many lines on each page for my niece because at this stage, I just want to instill a reading habit and the love for books. I want her to get attracted to books first, to encourage her to the wonderful world of fiction.
I will end with another quote from Neil Gaiman.
"Do not discourage children from reading because you feel they are reading the wrong thing. Fiction you do not like is a route to other books you may prefer. And not everyone has the same taste as you."
Any parents/teachers out there? What do you think of this topic?
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Let's see which one caught her interest. We were all so excited and anxious in waiting for her to reveal her choice.
No, not my birthday. Hahaha. I'm preparing for my niece's 1st birthday party. I have searched for more than a month to find the best and trustworthy catering company. After observing them on their Facebook page and reading the reviews by other customers for more than a month, I decided to recommend it to my brother and his wife (my sister-in-law).
We have chosen the dishes based on their given options from the menu and they have paid the caterer. Today, my Godma came to my house with auntie Jane Ni with a lovely dress they bought for my niece to be worn at her birthday party.
We went out for lunch at Secret Recipe and after that, we went to place an order at the bakery shop nearby for the birthday cake. A 3kg cake that costs RM270. Cakes are not cheap nowadays. Don't worry, I will snap a photo of the cake on that day, so stay tuned to my blog post and Instagram. Follow me if you're on Instagram.
These are my music CD collection and what you see here is only a small portion of it. I have four more stacks standing behind these four stacks that you see in this photo.
I had them since I was in my secondary school (high school in US) and I have not been listening to it for years. It has always been kept inside the storage cabinet for so long and only recently I have decided to take it all out for my books. Yes, books! Oh, don't get me started on that. Hahaha.
Alright, let's get back to my CDs first. I don't know what to do with it. One part of me thought of just throwing it away but the other part of me thinks it's kind of a waste if I just throw it away like that. Music CD is not cheap and all of it are original. Well, like they say... support the artistes.
Another reason is that music is so accessible in this age of Internet where you can just listen to any song from many platforms out there such as YouTube, Spotify, iTunes, to name a few. You can even buy and download original music from legal sites without having to keep the physical disc at home.
I know there are some websites or apps that allow you to put up your pre-loved items for sale but I wonder if anyone would still want to buy CDs nowadays when new released songs is just a click of a button away. Who still wants to keep CDs?
And I hate getting on to new websites. You know why? I hate to create a new account and have to set up a profile before I can even start to upload my stuff to be featured there. Well, I guess you gotta do what you gotta do, eh?
On a side note, I would like to hear what do you guys think? Should I just throw it away or try to sell it online? Comments are appreciated.
Seeing my hair getting longer and thicker, I decided to have a hair cut after lunch today. Once I'm done with the hair cut, I walked into Aeon supermarket just to walk around without any intention to get anything in particular.
When I walked to the cold beverages section where they put all the milk, yogurt, butter, cheese; I saw this little cute looking bottle and what caught my attention is the name on the bottle... Cafe latte. Another feature that caught my eyes is the round sticker at the bottom right stating EYES WIDE OPEN.
It's a Farm Fresh product. Farm Fresh is produced in Johor Bahru, Malaysia. Yay! Support local product!
The cafe latte contains 100% fresh cow's milk, Arabica coffee powder, and sugar as printed at the back of the bottle.
Let's talk about the design and the outlook first. I like the simple minimalist slim white bottle which is easy to hold and aesthetically pleasant.
Now let's move on to the taste. It is fragrant with the aroma of the Arabica coffee and I like the fact that it is not too sweet. You could have the best of both worlds; coffee and milk together in one bottle of Farm Fresh Cafe Latte.
Hi there! Welcome to my new blog. I'm sure you could tell a little about me from the title of this blog. Yes, I'm a classical pianist, and yes, I'm the unknown one. Well, not internationally (yet). Hahaha. Anyway, the main reason I created this blog is primarily for the love of writing and to document any important memorable events in my life. Hope you enjoy!