Books

Are Fantasy Books Bad For Children?

April 06, 2017

My niece

"The simplest way to make sure that we raise literate children is to teach them to read, and to show them that reading is a pleasurable activity. And that means, at its simplest, finding books that they enjoy, giving them access to those books, and letting them read them."

--- Neil Gaiman ---

I have met some school teachers whom never allow their students to read fantasy books. Why? One told me that the language they use in fantasy books are not proper English with words and character names that are created on purpose for the story. Another teacher said it is not healthy for the mind to read something which is not realistic.

This group of adults believe that children who read fantasy books would most probably delve into a sense of escapism, the tendency to seek distraction and relief from unpleasant realities, especially by seeking entertainment or engaging in fantasy.

Stories with magic spells, dragons, goblins, fairies would only encourage the young minds to escape from the reality world and to believe in those non-existent entities. I have read articles stating teachers in UK claimed that children who read fantasy books would develop difficult behaviours.

I am not here to agree or disagree on this topic for I'm not an expert in children's psychology and behaviour and I have yet to find any studies regarding this subject with substantial results. The reason I am interested in this topic is because I am concerned on the books I choose to buy for my niece to read.

As Neil Gaiman once wrote that there is no such thing as bad books for children because every now and then, it's fashionable for adults to criticize and declare certain books to be bad for children. Speaking from my personal experience, I grew up reading Enid Blyton, but do you know that she was once declared as a bad author and some parents banned their children to read her books.

What about you? Do you believe there are such thing as a bad author or bad books? Were you discouraged from reading a certain type of books when you're young? From my perspective of views, I tend to seek children books which are not only easy to read but stories with moral values for the child to learn the difference between good and bad behaviour.

For now, I would pick children books with more colourful images and not too many lines on each page for my niece because at this stage, I just want to instill a reading habit and the love for books. I want her to get attracted to books first, to encourage her to the wonderful world of fiction.

I will end with another quote from Neil Gaiman.

"Do not discourage children from reading because you feel they are reading the wrong thing. Fiction you do not like is a route to other books you may prefer. And not everyone has the same taste as you."

Any parents/teachers out there? What do you think of this topic?


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My Niece

First Grab

April 04, 2017

There is a Chinese belief that on the baby's first lunar birthday, the parents will place certain objects on the floor and let the baby crawl towards those objects and the first object the baby grabs will determine his/her future career.

My niece's first lunar birthday falls on the Gregorian calendar date of 3rd April 2017 and we placed objects like books, money, calculator, pens, ruler, and a toy piano and we let her crawl and see which one of the objects she will grab. 

Each object represents a type of profession.
Book = Scholar, Publisher.
Money = Investor.
Calculator = Accountant, Auditor.
Pens and ruler = Teacher, Writer, Author, Artist.
Toy piano = Pianist, Musician.

Let's see which one caught her interest. We were all so excited and anxious in waiting for her to reveal her choice.


Her first choice was the books and when we asked her to grab a second time, she grabs another book. Wow! It seems like she's really fond of books like her uncle (ME!!! Hahaha!) Book bears the meaning that she will become a scholar or publisher in future. Woohoo!

Look at the excitement and joy on her face the moment she got the book!

Birthday

Birthday Party Preparation

March 27, 2017

No, not my birthday. Hahaha. I'm preparing for my niece's 1st birthday party. I have searched for more than a month to find the best and trustworthy catering company. After observing them on their Facebook page and reading the reviews by other customers for more than a month, I decided to recommend it to my brother and his wife (my sister-in-law).

We have chosen the dishes based on their given options from the menu and they have paid the caterer. Today, my Godma came to my house with auntie Jane Ni with a lovely dress they bought for my niece to be worn at her birthday party.

Isn't this lovely? It's so pretty.

We went out for lunch at Secret Recipe and after that, we went to place an order at the bakery shop nearby for the birthday cake. A 3kg cake that costs RM270. Cakes are not cheap nowadays. Don't worry, I will snap a photo of the cake on that day, so stay tuned to my blog post and Instagram. Follow me if you're on Instagram.

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